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Rey Skywalker ([personal profile] thatwaslucky) wrote in [community profile] fandomhigh_ooc2021-02-12 09:56 am
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Meme: Domesticity

I'm having another stressful days in a series of stressful days (in related news, never attempt to buy a house) and would like a distraction. We haven't done this meme in a year so why not.

Ping your character in and people will offer up a pairing with that character, which is used to answer the meme questions. Feel free to answer with single words, though explanations and examples are always fun. Then other people can chime in with how they see that pairing work. Any pairing goes: friends, NPCs, canon love, canon hate, canon indifference, roommates/housemates, and if-Hell-froze-over-and-these-two-characters-got-together, go crazy! Don't forget to check back in throughout the day and see who else has pinged in!

For example:
Who uses all the hot water in the morning? Warren. He's got a LOT more to wash than Karla and when she is in the mood to spend a long time in the tub, she takes a bath with a glass of wine and a book. Also, Warren is the one who leaves the bathroom a wreck because soggy wings leave water everywhere.


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Who is the big spoon/little spoon?:
What is their favorite non-sexual activity?:
Who uses all the hot water in the morning?:
What they order from take out?:
What is the most trivial thing they fight over?:
Who does most of the cleaning?:
Who calls up the super/landlord when the heat's not working?:
Who steals the blankets?:
What is their late-night-viewing guilty pleasure?
Who kissed who first?
What would they do if the other one was hurt?
What do they get each other for gifts?
Who is more likely to pay for dinner?
How do they celebrate anniversaries?
What do they name their pet(s)?
On a scale from tolerable to sickeningly adorable in public, where do they rank?


But because these things always change and evolve, now there's a whole new set of questions we can ask for details about! Behold Domesticity Meme Part 2!

Who cooks normally?
How often do they fight?
What do they do when they're away from each other?
Nicknames for each other?
Who flirts more?
Do they act different in public and at home?
What are little gestures they do for each other?
Who kills the spiders?
Who is "the dominant one" (for however you want to define that)?
Who is the cuddler?
What annoying habit does one have that the other hates?
What do they do to make the other one jealous?
What do they do that embarrasses the other one?
What did they nearly break up over?
What is "their song"?
How do they handle holidays?


stykera: (hold me)

Stark/Belle

[personal profile] stykera 2021-02-12 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Probably can't respond much for an hour or 2 but give me something to do while I'm waiting before/after vaccine #2?
notfinishedyet: (Default)

Re: Stark/Belle

[personal profile] notfinishedyet 2021-02-12 06:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Belle/Five
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Re: Stark/Belle

[personal profile] noonedecidesmyfate 2021-02-13 05:35 am (UTC)(link)

Who is the big spoon/little spoon?:
Belle is the big spoon. Five does not want to be held. Belle is unmoved by this.
What is their favorite non-sexual activity?:
Sniping at each other.
Who uses all the hot water in the morning?:
Belle has princess hair and it requires lots of care. Five uses the hot water before she gets in the shower out of spite.
What they order from take out?:
Belle loves diner food. Five tries to expand her palate and grumbles about it. Belle secretly likes the rest of it too.
What is the most trivial thing they fight over?:
Everything they can think of.
Who does most of the cleaning?:
Belle, otherwise it would never get done.
Who calls up the super/landlord when the heat's not working?:
Belle.
Who steals the blankets?:
It is a constant struggle. They both know they need more blankets but both refuse to procure any.
What is their late-night-viewing guilty pleasure?:
Some reality TV show where they can judge the contestants. Belle will never admit to loving this.
Who kissed who first?:
Belle, to shut Five up and win an argument.
What would they do if the other one was hurt?:
Belle fusses over Five. Five makes sure she's not in immediate danger and goes off to do a murder of whoever hurt her.
Who is more likely to pay for dinner?:
Five
How do they celebrate anniversaries?:
Going out, arguing, and falling into bed.
What do they name their pet(s)?:
Belle has cats with ridiculous fantasy names.
On a scale from tolerable to sickeningly adorable in public, where do they rank?:
The squabbling is annoying for witnesses in public.
Who cooks normally?:
Neither one of them loves doing it but they both can. There's a lot of dinners out and delivery.
How often do they fight?:
Constantly but not seriously. It's just what they do.
What do they do when they're away from each other?:
Complain about the other, but in such a way that their friends are absolutely fed up with the act they insist on putting on.
Nicknames for each other?:
Belle calls him a sorcerer still to tease him.
What do they get each other for gifts?:
Belle finds vaguely magical things. Five buys scientific instruments and texts.
Who flirts more?:
Belle, absolutely.
Do they act different in public and at home?:
They argue louder at home.
What are little gestures they do for each other?:
Books appear, sometimes, without any note or acknowledgement.
Who kills the spiders?:
Five, with extreme prejudice. Belle would let them alone.
Who is "the dominant one" (for however you want to define that)?:
Yes.
Who is the cuddler?:
Belle uses corporal cuddling.
What annoying habit does one have that the other hates?:
Five does not like the corporal cuddling.
What do they do to make the other one jealous?:
Belle will bring up her betrothed from back home and pretend she doesn't loathe him.
What do they do that embarrasses the other one?:
Belle talks about travel by magic bean and other absurd magical things. Five is rude, to everyone.
What did they nearly break up over?:
Everything they can think of!
What is "their song"?:
"Maybe You're Not the Worst Thing Ever" from Galavant.
How do they handle holidays?:
There are visits with Belle's family. Five doesn't really want to see his, but Diego is allowed. Sometimes.
stykera: (hold me)

Re: Stark/Belle

[personal profile] stykera 2021-02-12 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)

Who is the big spoon/little spoon?:
Liam is definitely the big spoon the majority of the time but Stark will absolutely aggressively cuddle when it's warranted.
What is their favorite non-sexual activity?:
I want it to be trips in Liam's ship. I do.
Who uses all the hot water in the morning?:
Liam, because Stark showers at night.
What they order from take out?:
Stark would order the same thing endlessly once he found something he liked if left to his own devices but Liam likes to try new things and he's perfectly willing to go along with that.
What is the most trivial thing they fight over?:
Little arguments over whose turn it is to do something but because they both think it is NOT the other one's turn.
Who does most of the cleaning?:
Probably Stark. He likes that he can keep his space clean so he does.
Who calls up the super/landlord when the heat's not working?:
Stark tries to fix it himself with mixed results. Liam calls when it goes awry.
Who steals the blankets?:
Stark, but he also snuggles up to Liam while doing it.
What is their late-night-viewing guilty pleasure?:
Food Network!
Who kissed who first?:
I am not sure there is a universe where Stark kisses someone first.
What would they do if the other one was hurt?:
Liam can heal things. Stark can try. They both absolutely fuss over the other if there is an injury or illness. Stark panics if it's something that might be considered serious but he tries to do that quietly.
Who is more likely to pay for dinner?:
They probably have to trade off to avoid arguing over it. Stark makes sure everyone is tipped well even if he's not paying even though Liam would never undertip.
How do they celebrate anniversaries?:
Quietly but adorably.
What do they name their pet(s)?:
I've always thought Stark ought to have a very spoiled pet named after Rygel. But does Liam still come with mice?
On a scale from tolerable to sickeningly adorable in public, where do they rank?
They are adorable but not terrible in public. Usually.
Who cooks normally?:
Liam cooks more because someone has to make sure there is an occasional balanced meal and not just baked goods.
How often do they fight?:
Rarely seriously.
What do they do when they're away from each other?:
Stark is used to being alone. He worries, if it's for a long time. Liam knows he worries and checks in regularly. They both definitely come home from trips going "I got you something."
Nicknames for each other?:
Stark doesn't really give nicknames. Liam might offer something clearly affectionate.
What do they get each other for gifts?:
Little "this made me think of you" sorts of things and also occasional ridiculous over-the-top things.
Who flirts more?:
Stark is terrible at flirting.
Do they act different in public and at home?:
Yes. They are both definitely more relaxed when not in public.
What are little gestures they do for each other?:
Foods and drinks the other likes. Making tea or coffee before it's asked for.
Who kills the spiders?:
These two probably both set them free outside.
Who is "the dominant one" (for however you want to define that)?:
Usually Liam.
Who is the cuddler?:
Oh, they both want to cuddle.
What annoying habit does one have that the other hates?:
They both apologize too much.
What do they do to make the other one jealous?:
*gasp* they would NEVER.
What do they do that embarrasses the other one?:
Stark is embarrassed by too much public affection. Liam is embarrassed by Stark getting overly embarrassed by too much public affection.
What did they nearly break up over?:
A ridiculous misunderstanding that could have been avoided if they had simply TALKED but they decided not to bother the other and then it spiraled.
What is "their song"?:
I am trying to find something glowy related and failing! Okay I tried to resist but Bowie's "Loving the Alien" is RIGHT THERE.
How do they handle holidays?:
Stark loves the idea of holidays but wouldn't really celebrate them on his own because none of them are his. They both get into gift-giving occasions though and anything that involves feeding other people.
Edited 2021-02-13 06:07 (UTC)
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Re: Stark/Belle

[personal profile] defenderofdesmoines 2021-02-12 07:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Give me Stark/Annie!
stykera: (cling!)

Re: Stark/Belle

[personal profile] stykera 2021-02-13 05:08 am (UTC)(link)

Who is the big spoon/little spoon?:
Look, size-wise Stark ought to be the big spoon but personality-wise Stark is going to be the little spoon at least 87% percent of the time.
What is their favorite non-sexual activity?:
Baking lessons?
Who uses all the hot water in the morning?:
Annie needs to keep her hair pretty!
What they order from take out?:
Pizza is the go-to.
What is the most trivial thing they fight over?:
Annie would like to watch something that is NOT Food Network once in a while, thank you.
Who does most of the cleaning?:
They both try to do more of it.
Who calls up the super/landlord when the heat's not working?:
Annie calls. Stark tries to fix it first. Annie sometimes has to call again after Stark tries to fix it.
Who steals the blankets?:
Stark but when he wakes up and realizes it he gives them back.
What is their late-night-viewing guilty pleasure?:
Annie has movies and TV from home and brings out the most ridiculous ones for late nights.
Who kissed who first?:
Annie, absolutely. Stark was too startled to do anything but stand there at first.
What would they do if the other one was hurt?:
Stark panics but in a contained way because he has to help and then absolutely breaks down later. Annie very briefly wonders if Stark is going to be leaking light instead of bleeding before getting the first aid kit and getting to work.
Who is more likely to pay for dinner?:
Stark tries to, but Annie insists on paying sometimes.
How do they celebrate anniversaries?:
They both remember important dates without needing any prompting. There are usually gifts and a quiet dinner.
What do they name their pet(s)?:
Annie named the dog something adorable and silly.
On a scale from tolerable to sickeningly adorable in public, where do they rank?:
There are rare moments that veer into sickeningly adorable but usually they are fine. Usually.
Who cooks normally?:
Stark. His kitchen has food in those containers, Annie.
How often do they fight?:
They both get frustrated by the other at times but it rarely turns into an actual fight.
What do they do when they're away from each other?:
Annie is probably off doing superhero things while Stark is pacing anxiously. She definitely texts or calls to say she's safe when things are over. Stark wanders off by himself sometimes to quiet outdoor spaces.
Nicknames for each other?:
If there are any, they are rarely used and somehow glow-related.
What do they get each other for gifts?:
Stark finds little things he think might make her smile. Annie tends to go a little bigger because once she learned more of his history she wanted to make sure he had nice things of his own.
Who flirts more?:
The answer to this question will just never ever be Stark. He has no game.
Do they act different in public and at home?:
Stark is definitely more reserved in public but probably doting at home.
What are little gestures they do for each other?:
Stark makes sure there are treats she likes, always, because he's still appalled Annie's mother told her sugar makes you ugly. Annie quietly replaces worn-out clothing items because Stark would wear things until they fell apart because he doesn't want to waste.
Who kills the spiders?:
The spiders did nothing wrong and deserve mercy!
Who is "the dominant one" (for however you want to define that)?:
Annie and it's not even a question.
Who is the cuddler?:
This is another pair that both want cuddles. Annie started it!
What annoying habit does one have that the other hates?:
Sometimes Annie gets real tired of Stark's self-deprication. Stark just wishes the coffeemaker didn't die mysterious deaths so often.
What do they do to make the other one jealous?:
Stark wouldn't think of it. Annie would feel too guilty to really work at it.
What do they do that embarrasses the other one?:
Annie's cooking attempts are more a source of amusement than embarrassment.
What did they nearly break up over?:
It took Stark a while to accept that Annie is very hard to hurt and he was definitely overly concerned with her safety and freaking out.
What is "their song"?:
After some googling for songs with the word glow in them, let's go with Glow - Gavin James.
How do they handle holidays?:
Annie, as we learned from The Christmas Party, is really into them! Stark happily goes along with it.
somethingwithturquoise: (wanna make out and be irresponsible?)

Re: Stark/Belle

[personal profile] somethingwithturquoise 2021-02-12 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Stark/Summer, obviously~~
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Re: Stark/Belle

[personal profile] stykera 2021-02-13 04:03 pm (UTC)(link)

Who is the big spoon/little spoon?:
Summer is almost always the big spoon. But sometimes Stark just needs to cling to someone.
What is their favorite non-sexual activity?:
Either team Jello making efforts or space trips. Possibly Jello in space.
Who uses all the hot water in the morning?:
Summer has a lot more hair to wash!
What they order from take out?:
Stark has a few favorites he gravitates towards. Summer is consistently trying to get him to try weird things, and he does if they're in front of him. He's not going to waste it.
What is the most trivial thing they fight over?:
Jello ingredients.
Who does most of the cleaning?:
Stark, but not out of a plan to do so. He just kind of does it.
Who calls up the super/landlord when the heat's not working?:
Summer but that doesn't always go well.
Who steals the blankets?:
Both of them.
What is their late-night-viewing guilty pleasure?:
Summer has turned him on to some absolutely terrible media from various regions of the multiverse. They are both hooked on a poorly produced space drama.
Who kissed who first?:
Summer for sure. And then he sputtered something and she did it again.
What would they do if the other one was hurt?:
Summer comes up with elaborate revenge scenarios because who is going to hurt Stark?? Stark tries to smother any panic by being an overattentive medic.
Who is more likely to pay for dinner?:
There are elaborate rituals playing out over who is supposed to pick up a check and when and neither one of them is really sure how or why these rituals happened but they keep perpetuating them.
How do they celebrate anniversaries?:
Summer plans trips.
What do they name their pet(s)?:
Summer comes with a pre-named cat in Pancakes. Eventually a 2nd pet named Cupcake may be added in keeping with the theme.
On a scale from tolerable to sickeningly adorable in public, where do they rank?:
Summer will lean into being sickeningly adorable in public, just for a bit, to see what happens. What happens is usually Stark willing himself to disappear.
Who cooks normally?:
Stark. A Banik (or human) cannot live on Jello alone.
How often do they fight?:
Not terribly often but Summer is adamant about getting him to be more adventurous, which can lead to disagreements.
What do they do when they're away from each other?:
Summer likes traveling alone sometimes. He's used to alone, but worries. She knows that and checks in and sends pictures which are often very bizarre.
Nicknames for each other?:
Every once in a while Stark will call Summer something in another language with clearly exasperated fondness. He never admits what the exact translation is. Summer will come up with light or mask based wordplay to try and make Stark laugh.
What do they get each other for gifts?:
Summer finds Really Cool Shit on her travels and is always so excited to show it off.
Who flirts more?:
Summer is much, much better at flirting.
Do they act different in public and at home?:
They are both more relaxed. Summer feels less like she has to be "on" all the time and Stark is more affectionate.
What are little gestures they do for each other?:
Stark brings her the most absurd Jello recipes he can find. In return, Summer does not make him try any of the meat-based ones. Sometimes he takes one anyway and tries his best not to make a face.
Who kills the spiders?:
Stark sets them free. Summer may do some arachnid murders.
Who is "the dominant one" (for however you want to define that)?:
I feel like Summer.
Who is the cuddler?:
Once Stark realizes he can cuddle it is hard to get him to stop.
What annoying habit does one have that the other hates?:
Sometimes, Stark will hover in the kitchen, cleaning as messes are made. He thinks he's being helpful, Summer thinks it's judgey.
What do they do to make the other one jealous?:
There was an Incident involving a Jello seller on a trip once. Stark still feels terrible about it.
What do they do that embarrasses the other one?:
Summer, he thinks, sometimes goes overboard in attempts to gain approval, especially in public settings. Then Stark will quietly tell her she is already enough, just as she is and she turns beet red.
What did they nearly break up over?:
Summer got very frustrated with what she thought was Stark just refusing to come out of his comfort zone.
What is "their song"?:
"I Took a Trip on a Gemini Spaceship"
How do they handle holidays?:
Summer's family is A Lot but there's no way to get out of every holiday with them so some are spent there. Stark doesn't have any of his own he really celebrates but Summer continues planning elaborate parties.